What does MeMe stand for? I don't know. But, here's a survey about Judd's and my relationship. For your reading pleasure:
What are your middle names?My middle name is Renee which rhymes with our last name. Judd's middle name is Adam, but he also has two last names Lee Bunag which means Miles will have those two last names as well.
How long have you been together?
We've been married 3 and a half years. We dated for 3 years before that.
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
We met in January of 2001 when I came home for Christmas break. We mostly talked on the Internet for a year and a half before I moved home. We started dating shortly after.
Who asked whom out?
It depends on who you ask. Technically no one asked each other out, we just decided to start dating. BUT, I'm telling you right now he had romantic intentions before I did. He will tell you something else though.
How old are each of you?
I'll be 27 next month. He is a cradle robber and will be 39 in May. He likes the younguns.
Whose siblings do you see the most?
I've never met his dad or brothers. My brother lives in Germany, but we've obviously seen him much more often than Judd's family.
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
Any situation that involves finances. Neither of us are good with finances, and even though we continue to agree to work on them, we avoid it. This just causes more problems. I'd have to say a close second though would be Baby Mama Drama.
Did you go to the same school?
We both graduated from UAA but at different times. We definitely didn't go to the same high school as he was graduating the year I was entering elementary school.
Are you from the same home town?
Nope. I grew up in Eagle River, AK. He grew up in Pennsylvania and San Francisco. His family still lives in San Fran.
Who is smarter?
I don't think either of us is smarter. He knows more about different things than I do. And, I know more about other things. I think we're both smart.
Who is the most sensitive?
Tough question. I'd say it's about equal. I think he's very sensitive when it comes to certain things. I'm also very sensitive when it comes to things. He might give you a different answer.
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
We rarely, if ever, go out just the two of us. If we're going out with the kids though, probably the most often visited restaurant would be Bear Mountain Grill for their yummy breakfast.
Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
St. Louis for my brother's wedding.
Who has the craziest exes?
I don't really have any exes. So, his win by default. But, they also win because most of them really are crazy.
Who has the worst temper?
I wouldn't say one of us has the "worst." I'd just say our tempers are different. It takes a lot to make either of us REALLY angry...but then my temper makes me crazy while his makes him scary. I think that's the best way to describe it.
Who does the cooking?
Since we've moved in with my parents, we both do. In the apartment, he did most of the cooking. He's better at dinners while I'm better at breakfasts. However, he seems to have suddenly become pretty clueless when it comes to the cooking. I think he just likes to get sympathy help from mom.
Who is the neat-freak?
He is. Not necessarily a neat-freak, but much more neater than I am. Sometimes, I get this weird organization bug up my ass that makes me want everything just so. At that point, his pack rat tendencies drive me insane.
Who is more stubborn?
Probably me, but only by a tiny smidgen. Because I said so.
Who hogs the bed?
I plead the fifth.
Who wakes up earlier?
Early in our relationship, it was always him. We've reversed roles. I really can't seem to sleep in too late anymore. He'd sleep all day if I let him.
Where was your first date?
I guess I'd have to say the Eagle River Visitor's Center for a hike. Although, it really wasn't a date to begin with. But, he showed up with a rose and mixed CD. And this is where I say he wanted to start a romantic relationship where as he claims otherwise. I claim he's delusional.
Who is more jealous?
Unless he's harboring some secret jealous thoughts, it's definitely me. I'm jealous of people and things that take his time away from me or the family.
How long did it take to get serious?
We were pretty serious when we first starting dating. I mean, he was old....errrr I mean older...and not willing to start a relationship that wasn't going to be very serious. He'd already been divorced and burned by other women. He also didn't want to introduce someone into his kids' lives that wouldn't be around for long.
Who eats more?
He does. Unless you count right now. I'm pregnant; I have an excuse.
Who does the laundry?
We both do. When we lived in the apartment, he did it alone more often, because I hated going to the laundry mat and wasting half a day. Now, we both do it. Having a washer and dryer in house has been a miracle.
Who's better with the computer?
I'm going to say me. Once again, he might have a different answer. He will admit that I am the one with a better computer...cause it's a Mac.
Who drives when you are together?
It's about equal. Even though I'm a better driver (which he'll admit is true), I'd rather have him drive. Driving is a chore to me. I'd rather be driven places...not enough to ride the bus though!
excited to have such a beautifully made piece of furniture that we're sure will stay in the family for years. Thank you so much Grandpa! You're wonderful!
